Calendar of grief tending events

Find a list of community grief tending rituals and workshops throughout 2021, in Brighton and beyond. 

Join the next ritual – Lammas


On Saturday 7 August from 10am – 5pm, we’ll gather as a village at the Centre for Ecotherapy in Brighton. Giving gratitude to all we’ve harvested in the past year, and planting seeds for the year to come.  

The format

  • building the banks of the village, for the river of grief to flow, including creating supportive altars
  • stirring the grief, with exercises in writing and active listening
  • time to express grief at a grief altar
  • integration time with song and meditation
  • harvest and close.

Suggested exchange

The suggested exchange for the full day is £60. There are some concessionary spots available.


Booking and payment is advance is essential- Please email me – – to get the booking instructions, or if you have any questions.

Rituals in 2021

  • Saturday 25 September – day long workshop in Brighton, at the Centre for Ecotherapy.
  • Friday 29 – Sunday 31 October – Wake for a vanishing world – Centre for Stewardship, Fife.


To book a place in advance, please email me – 

“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.”